Mar012012

Diaperaps® and Sage Diaper say Goodbye . It’s been an adventure.

The idea for Diaperaps was born while I was living in Hong Kong with a new baby son. The humid weather, in combination with rubber pants, left my baby boy with terrible diaper rash. It was then that I invented Diaperaps, proving literally that necessity is the mother of invention. Diaperaps was a patented diaper cover that would revolutionize cloth diapering by eliminating pins and rubber pants. It was to be the beginning of a long journey that took us around the world and back again and taught us so many life lessons. It was also to be the beginning of a long and difficult battle against the intrenched interests of disposable diaper makers who relied upon parents using 7000 diapers and throwing them away rather than 80 reusable cloth ones in order to benefit their bottom line. (They also spend millions of dollars to convince parents that their babies bottom line would be more comfortable wrapped in plastic rather than breathable cotton).

Diaperaps diaper cover + natural cloth diapers

That was back in 1980. For the few dedicated cloth diaper users back then , the only choices were diaper pins and rubber pants. When I started this business, I knew nothing of manufacturing, clothing design or textile fabrication. But I believed strongly then as I do now that disposable diapers are not only the greatest symbol of our throw away mentality, they also represent an enormous waste of resources.

So I began to learn all that I could about pattern making and the garment industry. I even flew back to Hong Kong to find a manufacturer (no one in this country would make it for us) which was no easy task as I hated flying and was scared to go by myself (we couldn’t afford for both my husband and I to go) had a terrible case of  laryngitis (I could barely be heard) and I had no contacts or leads or connections in Hong Kong. But I had lots of determination, which is a good thing to have when you are trying to start a business that you know nothing about.

Our first color flyer - 1984

Ultimately the Hong Kong manufacturer used our deposit money to bail themselves out of trouble with their suppliers and our bank gave us a hard time in returning our life savings — we had sunk this money into a letter of credit ( you do a letter of credit because you are suppose to get your money back if something like this happens ). The hardest decision I had to make was not to sink any more money into this manufacturer who lied to us over and over again, even if it meant we wouldn’t be able to go on.

Life Lesson # 1  You can’t build a business with people you don’t trust

On crutches due to a broken ankle from stepping into a big hole while trying to catch our family rabbit that got loose in the backyard, I hobbled around downtown Los Angeles trying to find people to help me out. And because I was willing to ask for help and also listen when they gave advice, even if it was advice I didn’t want to hear, I found many people willing to lend me a hand .

Life Lesson # 2  : Don’t chase things in the dark    

Life Lesson # 3 : You have to ask for help and listen when you get it.   

For the water proof barrier material, I had to convince a manufacturer’s sales rep to design a fabric especially for diaper cover use (they made things for aviation and the medical industry). The guy’s boss laughed at him and said well if you want to fly with this, it’s on your time. Within 5 years we were their largest customer.

Life Lesson # 4  People are willing to take a chance with you, if they believe in you

In the beginning, my husband and I were the sole employees. I carried responsibility for design, product development, pattern making, manufacturing, inventory and accounting. I even went to vocational school to learn pattern making. Abraham carried responsibility for sales, marketing, shipping and general running around . We both worked at raising money by asking everyone we knew. Many of our family and close friends really came through for us. In the early days, we drew up lots of budgets and cash flow charts,  but somehow in the process of imaging our business growing , we forgot to imagine all of the staff we would have to hire.

Life Lesson # 5   It always costs more than you think

There was so much to learn about the garment industry. I can honestly say, it is a miracle that anyone has anything to wear. Early on, before we understood the importance of Quality Control, we discovered a huge problem with our hook and loop (the generic name for velcro). And let me tell you that If the Hook and Loop is defective, ain’t nobody going to be happy when that diaper cover comes undone. At first the tech person at the mill that produced it for us took responsibility but then the higher ups decided that it wasn’t their responsibility to fix.

So I had to repair thousands of covers (didn’t have the money to pay for the repairs) and Abraham had to snip all the threads.
Don’t Ask !!!   

Life Lesson # 6 was learned the hard way. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure … Quality Control !  

In the 1990′s we really grew up.  I designed several innovative diapering products that earned me patents, back then they had gold foil and pretty blue ribbons on the front. We were the first to use PUL in a reusable diapering product, paving the way for a whole new generation of cloth diapering products. We were also the first to add leg gussets and to have an umbilical cut out. Our diaper covers were the first to be sold in national stores, going into JC Penney’s in 1988. We were first to offer a complete line of swim diapers for girls and boys and to manufacture an absorbent training pant that a baby couldn’t just pee straight through to the floor when you were in the store and couldn’t get to the bathroom in time (yes, real life experiences were the inspiration for all our products)

Our Swim Diaper for girls

At our height we had over 35 employees. From the very beginning we offered everyone health insurance and flexible working hours (especially appreciated by our moms). We wanted it to be more than a workplace, we wanted a community that supported each other and valued each member’s contributions. This did not come easy as everyone comes to work with their own personal baggage. I was amazed at how rewarding I found this work to be. We celebrated birthdays, fridays, new accounts… and most people gained several pounds after working at Diaperaps. I was also surprised to learn how many people had never experienced Bagels, Lox and Cream cheese (our Friday breakfast). I believe that when you develop a business culture that treats employees with respect and care, then that is how they will treat your customers – and they also become incredibly loyal.  The only complaint I ever received about our customer service was from a customer

who called me to say how rudely she was treated on the phone by our customer service rep. ” Right in the middle of the order, she started screaming at me COFFEE BREAK coffee break and then hung up the phone.” I laughed and then told her we were located in Southern California and that our rep wasn’t screaming COFFEE BREAK but EARTHQUAKE. Then we both laughed and she apologized and I sent her a free diaper cover.

Life Lessons # 7 – # 1000   From Coffee Breaks to Earth Quakes, there will be ups and downs in anything that you do, so try to keep perspective and balance and remember things will look better tomorrow.  

We did end up manufacturing in China for several years. But before I committed to manufacturing there, I had to be sure that it was the kind of factory that treated their workers fairly, had good working conditions, only employed adults, you get the picture.  This was all right before the big explosion over Kathy Lee Gifford and the factories where her clothing line were made using child labor. But I decided to fly there myself (remember I hate flying) and see it with my own eyes. The factory was co owned by an American who was to become my partner for many years. He was a generous and gracious man from Louisiana who made China his home and really loved it’s people and it’s challenges. And it showed in his factory, which when it was inspected a few years later by a team from a very large department store that we were selling to, said it was the nicest clothing factory they had ever seen in China.

We loved the people and they took great pride in making our product for us and were always so excited when we introduced new colors. But it was a whole different culture and it was important to understand their culture and not expect them to understand ours. After all I was working in their country.  I got to eat really great Chinese food every time I visited and experienced a whole different perspective. There are too many life lessons about working in China to list them all here.

The time came for us to bring it all back to the U.S. This was a hard decision. We were in major department stores such as J.C.Penney’s and Sears and selling to large retail stores in the U.K and distributors all over Europe. Manufacturing in the U.S. would mean that we would have to give up that part of the business that sold to the large retailers since we wouldn’t have the price point to compete. But I grew really tired of all the time away from my family. One day after spending 6 weeks in China overseeing the meticulous and ridiculous packaging instructions for our swim diapers from Woolworth’s in the United Kingdom and spending both my birthday and Mother’s Day in a hotel room instead of my family, I asked myself, is it worth it ? And the answer was No.  There were so many quality control problems that I was always dealing with (the sewing was perfect but they had so many problems with quality control over the raw materials).  It was wonderful coming back home. We got to reestablish long term relationships with our vendors, provide employment for local workers in the factory and it was only a 10 minutes from where we lived.

Life Lesson # 1,000,000   Know what is important and value it.    

Children learn through imitation. They learn to speak because they hear us speak. When they are young, they yearn to be just like their mommies and daddies. We try to teach them our values and what is most important to us. We hope they will grow up strong and caring. You can make a difference in how much you consume & what example you set for your children. You can teach them, from their first day, the value of caring for the earth and dealing with waste in a responsible way. ”

Over the past 7 years we’ve seen a wonderful growth of interest in reusable diapers and an abundance of choices for responsible and healthy diapering. There has also been a lot of hype around single use diapers that are biodegradable. Nothing biodegrades in a landfill because there is no oxygen. A Landfill study conducted by the University of Arizona found 50 year old newspapers that were still readable. There are so many great choices in reusable cloth diapers – please try and use them whenever you can and reserve the single use only when necessary. There are also many great choices made in the U.S.A. Unfortunately most of the large manufacturers have gone to China so read the labels so you know who and what you are supporting with your money.

Life Lesson # 1,000,001   Know when it’s time to say goodbye, let go and move on.

I devoted my time and efforts to the Diaperaps® diapering system because I believe the diaper choice you make will have a lasting effect on your baby and the future of our planet. It has been an honor to provide the diapers and covers that went on millions of little babies bottoms.

 With gratitude for all that I have learned through this journey.

And now for the next adventure…

Rachael Flug

 

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Aug182011

Nourishing Our Bodies – Simple Ways to Upgrade a Bath

Just 15 minutes can nurture your Body and your Spirit

We seem to have time to pamper everyone but ourselves. Maybe we shouldn’t think of this as pampering but rather as nourishment or better yet as “no side effect medicine”. For additional enhancement, light a few candles in the bathroom — candles make everything more magical.

Your bath is a place of quiet, a private world where you can gently put aside the demands of your everyday life. Once you are alone, let the burdens of the day lift and empty your mind of all your concerns. Let your body become weightless, your arms float to the surface and your thoughts drift. Have a nice thick towel or robe handy to wrap around yourself when you leave the bath.

I will be blogging on 8 quick & easy recipes for transforming a bath into a Spa experience. Today’s post is about Milk Baths

Milk Baths

Bathing in Milk leaves the skin feeling conditioned and moisturized. Use one cup of powdered milk in the water, and as you are drawing your bath, slowly add it, swirling the powder around to help it  dissolve. Or you can warm fresh milk up in a saucepan and add a little honey. Take if off the heat and if you have a favorite essential oil , you should add 6 drops to the milk. Then pour the milk immediately into a warm bath.

ADD A NATURAL FRAGRANCE : Not everyone enjoys the smell of milk in the bath, so either add a few drops of your favorite essential oil or throw some fresh or dried herbs and flowers such as chamomile, lavender, lemon balm, lemon verbena or rose petals into your bath. Just be sure they weren’t sprayed !

WATER TEMPERATURE MATTERS : Make sure the water isn’t too hot or cold for you. This should be a very pleasant experience not a trial. A warm bath (92 – 100 degrees) has a sedative and relaxing effect. A tepid bath ( 80 – 92 degrees ) is rejuvenating, cooling and anti-inflammatory. I prefer the warm bath since I always take mine in the evening. But if I ever had enough time to take a bath in the morning, it might be nice to have it be a rejuvenating one.

Chocolate Milk Bath Mix  

for when you are very good (or very bad)

2 cups powdered milk
1/4 cup cocoa
2 tablespoons cornstarch (same as corn flour)
optional: 1 teaspoon cinnamon

Mix together all ingredients and place in a glass jar. Use 1/2 – 1 cup per bath.

Hmmm  I love soaking in chocolate. Enjoy !

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Aug172011

Wise Tips for New Parents

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We asked our Sage Mamas and Papas to share one piece of advice out of their experience that they would like to share with others. Here are some excerpts — Enjoy !

• I’m a sage mama and my piece of advice to expecting sage mamas is to enjoy every minute of that pregnancy. Those 40 weeks feel like they take forever but it’s such a blessed time and it may be your only time feeling it!

• Cherish every moment as they are learning experiences for both Mom & babies that you’ll never forget.

• Savor every moment while baby is still a baby. Time flies and baby grows fast!

• I am the mama of 2 baby boys who are 13 months apart. Aaron is now 22 months and Hunter is almost 9 months. One thing I have learned with having 2 babies so close in age is that when they are both having a break down – always go to your older one first. They will remember if you ignore them and they will get jealous of the little one.

copyright   2011 Rachael Flug/SageMamas

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Jul202011

50% OFF – ALL ORGANIC BABY CLOTHING

50% Organic Baby Clothing at SageDiaper.com

SageDiaper.com is offering 50% off all their inventory of certified organic baby clothing. Now is your time to get some beautiful certified organic baby clothing at 50% off. Nothing is being held back. No codes needed. Pass this on to your friends.

We have Kate Quinn organic baby basics and Kee-Ka adorable tee’s and Kicky Pants bamboo dresses. And lots more.

Plus we offer $5.00 flat shipping.

Sorry but this sale is only good for items in stock, no rain checks and this can’t be combined with any other discount offer.

 

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Jun182011

The Expectant Dad – Happy Father’s Day

Believe it or not, expectant fathers have just as many questions, concerns, worries and doubts about pregnancy and parenthood as expectant mothers do. Unfortunately, it isn’t as easy for the father-to-be to get advice and helpful tips about pregnancy as there are for the mother-to-be. After all if they can’t ask for directions how in the world can they ask about something this intimate and personal ?

The expectant father’s physical distance from the process of pregnancy brings its own stress and worries. Most men have a positive reaction to finding out about the pregnancy, but may also have doubts, confusion and fear about all the changes taking place. “What kind of father will I be?”  And they are generally clueless when it comes to understanding what their partner is going through. But thankfully they really want to be actively involved in the pregnancy and parenting process.

So here is a very helpful book for the “Dad to Be” by Jennifer Ash and Armin Brott

The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips and Advice for Dads-to-Be, Second Edition

“An information-packed guide to all the emotional, financial and physical changes the father-to-be may experience during the course of his partner’s pregnancy. Incorporating the wisdom of top experts in the field, from obstetricians and birth-class instructors to psychologists and sociologists, this book is filled with sound advice and practical tips for men, as well as New Yorker-style cartoons that will keep fathers-to-be chuckling.”

And to all the Moms out there, I can tell you that when the day comes ,  you will just melt when you see your hubbie holding a little baby so tenderly in his arms.

Happy Father’s Day to all you Papa’s out there !!!

thanks to www.bornfreemom.ca for the photo of dad and baby
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Apr282011

Free for New Parents & Parents needing New Inspiration

Newborn sleeping baby

Wise Tips from Sage Mamas


Talk to other mamas, they often can give the best advice from an experience standpoint. Nothing is ever “by the book” so it helps to get advice, opinions and ideas from others who have been there. But remember that every baby is unique in their own way.
Always listen to your inner wisdom, but be open to the wisdom that others have to share.


With this in mind, we asked our Sage Mamas and Papas to share one piece of advice out of their experience that they would like to share with others.


I have put together a lovely online booklet, with these quotes, along with some very cute photos and a rainbow of colors. I am happy to share them with you (for FREE of course) and I hope they are a source of inspiration and support on your parenting journey

To Get Your FREE Copy – Just Post a comment on this Blog – so I can see your email address.

With much gratitude to all who took the time to care and share,

Rachael Flug, mother of three , Blogger of Sage Mamas and owner of Sage Diaper

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Apr222011

Tis A Gift To Be Simple

Wishing you the Simple Joys of Life

I originally posted this in Dec 2009 but it seems appropriate to post again now. Happy Spring !

One positive that has emerged from the difficult times we are in, is that we are learning to live more simply. From growing a vegetable garden to making home cooked meals (instead of eating out) we are spending less time shopping and consuming. As we enter this holiday season I hope that you can continue to consume less without feeling guilty.

You might even discover that Simple is even better than you could have imagined.

This song Tis A Gift To Be Simple was originally written by Joseph Bracket a Shaker in 1848.  I really like the newer verses that go with this melody.  You’ll find the original verse with the sheet music

Tis the gift to be loved and that love to return,
‘Tis the gift to be taught and a richer gift to learn,
And when we expect of others what we try to live each day,
Then we’ll all live together and we’ll all learn to say,
‘Tis the gift to have friends and a true friend to be,
‘Tis the gift to think of others not to only think of “me”,
And when we hear what others really think and really feel,
Then we’ll all live together with a love that is real.

simple-gifts-lead-sheet

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Feb082011

Mama expecting her second child and husband is deployed in Afghanistan – She needs our advice

“I’m expecting my second child in May and my first will be about 20 months when the baby is born. I’m looking for creative ideas to celebrate him being a big brother to minimize the jealousy he will feel over the new baby. Thank you, I’m really looking forward to the feedback since my son is so used to getting all my attention since we are together 24/7, and also my husband is currently deployed in Afghanistan so he won’t have daddy to keep him busy when the new baby comes. It’s going to be interesting getting him to adjust.”

I received this thoughtful email from Michelle M. Although her situation is more challenging than many of us experienced with the birth of our second child , her concerns are universal.

Welcoming our First Born into Sibling-hood. Please join in and share your experiences and helpful suggestions.

I think you have taken the first important step, which is realizing that the excitement we as parents and grandparents feel over the birth of a second child is not exactly the same emotions that the big brother might experience. This kind of sensitivity , in the midst of all that you are carrying (literally) is a profound realization that will lead you to support your little boy in so many wonderful ways. So Congratulations !

As a mother of three I got to celebrate “big brother and big sister” twice. Here are some of the ideas that helped me (not in any specific order). There were four years between my first and second child, so there were some things that I could do with a four year old that isn’t possible with a 20 month old — so I don’t include those.

1) Grandparents can be a great help here. Mine were very careful to embrace the big brother and give him lots of attention instead of just running to gush over our newborn little girl.

2) We made a special little baby shower for the big brother / big sister . Kind of like the baby shower  Mom would get only much simpler, with a few special games and of course a few presents for the them (don’t go overboard on the presents).

3)  After baby was born, we made sure there was a simple activity that he could do for the baby. It could be handing you a diaper or holding baby’s hand , etc.

4)  Try to make going to bed for the big brother a little more special. If you don’t already sing them a song or recite some favorite nursery rhymes or say a prayer together, then you can add one or all of these to your nightly routine.

5)  If there are any changes you need to make , such as where the big brother will be sleeping, do it before the baby is born. But if possible, keep changes to a minimum.

And of course, Patience and Understanding go a long way to helping big brother adjust to the big changes.

Good luck and let me know how it goes for you.



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Jan312011

Natural Unbleached Cloth Diapers – They’re the real thing

There are sooooo many choices out their for Cloth Diapers. And we are happy to offer you 4 different diaper systems to meet your personal needs. But the one that experienced cloth diaper moms keep coming back to are these. 100% premium cloth diapers. They are often called “prefold” diapers but new to cloth parents are confused by this title since a little folding is required. So we call them ” Easy Fold” diapers. Basically you just fold them in thirds and lay them into your waterproof diaper cover. They dry much faster than other diaper options and they will last and last and last AND LAST. For $296 you can get a birth to potty package which is everything you need to go from birth to potty (hence the name ! ).

We were out of stock of this great product for a few weeks so are really glad to have them back again. We now offer them only in Unbleached cotton for their superior durability and softness . (If you really want them white all you have to do is use a little bleach in the first wash).

Easy to Fold – Quick Dry – 100% Cotton comfort  and YOU WILL SAVE THOUSANDS ON DIAPERING

PLUS  you’ll only be using 6 dozen diapers instead of 7000 Disposables or hybrid inserts.

Now you understand why so many experienced cloth diaper users choose these with our waterproof diaper covers.

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Dec072010

Give a Gift that will cover them with comfort all year

A Gift Certificate with a Bonus ! We’ll add 15% to whatever amount you purchase.

A Sage Diaper | Baby’s Organic Nursery Gift Certificate is a great way for you to give someone in your life a special gift and allow them to select the exact products they are looking for.

In these more difficult economic times, you can help them to choose cloth diapers for their little one. They will save thousands over the cost of disposables and you will be giving them a reusable, easy, chemical free cotton diapering system.

Of course the gift certificate is good for anything on our website which includes a beautiful selection of certified organic baby bedding, organic baby clothing and organic crib mattresses.

Giving one of our gift certificates is super easy — just fill it in online and “send”. If you prefer not to order online, just call us at 1-800-477-3424  and we’ll be happy to help.

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